Solemnity of All Saints
To my mind, eulogies delivered in Church often over focus on the human skills and qualities the deceased loved one possessed, rather than the virtues of their Christian calling by which they lived. Sometimes the emotions of the eulogists run so high that virtues are magnified to the level of sanctity and I am often times tempted to look into the coffin to see if the person spoken of is really the same person that I know.
And yet there have been funeral eulogies which have deeply moved me. One such eulogy that deeply impacted my life was the funeral of the father of Fr Anil Rego, one of the priests of the Archdiocese of Bombay. The deceased gentleman’s spouse, Philomena had passed away a few months earlier and now it seemed that Leonard had died of a broken heart. The son who delivered the eulogy spoke not of his deceased father but of his parents, for he said he could not conceive even talking about his deceased father without mentioning in the same breath his mother. They were joined at the hip, not at birth, but by marriage and they lived their Christian calling as a holy family.
I left the Eucharist feeling deeply moved with the distinct feeling that I had attended the funeral of a saintly man who lived a saintly Christian life. I had never met Leonard Rego in life and yet in death he had stirred my heart to love Christ even more and I believe of all those sitting in the congregation that day. I went back to the parochial house nourished by both, the Eucharist and the example of a man who lived a saintly life.
Very informative…Thank you 😊
In fact in our daily lives too, we are surrounded by people who live the gospel so fully, but as they do so in their personal relationships, they may never actually be pronounced as saints. However they have evangelized in the best way they knew.
And rather that WAIT for a eulogy to tell them that, it’s better if we do so while they LIVE and can hear us.
So, Fr.Warner, I’d like to thank you for your Daily Effort to spread God’s Word in writing as well as in your actions.
Stay Blessed 🙏
I agree with you Warner. People are saints not because they do saintly things but because they are good human beings. And, that is all there is to life. A person leaves behind a legacy of love and one has earned sainthood.!
Do you have an contact number of Anil. ? He was a colleague of my elder bro and two years senior to me in St Stanislaus.
Not really, I dont know who this is
Fr Anil Rego. Strange….. you have posted about the eulogies he gave at his father s funeral but you don’t know him.:(
Sorry I thought you were asking a completely different Anil. Apologies. Please send me a mail and I will send you Fr Anils number
Pleasure to read the word pen down with thoughts so lively, take me back to a person who was as dear as a sister to me, but called into God glory at an early age as I read the pray book envelope as a mortuary card. We wait for miracles to happen so that the church could study and justify the same for announcing them as saints, but I have seen the lives of people keeping the word of God close to the heart, like a tree growing beside a river, we are all called to be saints, only thing that matters who gives up half way through this journey called life. Thank you Father for your efforts and practical examples.