Why me God; question or exclamation – Wednesday, 26th Week in ordinary time – Job 9:1-16
On Hearing of Job’s misfortunes, his friends Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuite and Zophar the Naamathite come to visit him. So great has been Jobs’ sufferings that they fail to recognize him and join their dear friend in his lament by tearing their clothes while scattering dust on their heads and then sit in silence for seven days with Job. We need to see his friends for what they are, concerning and caring. Let not their arguments that follow be seen as judgment of their friend for they are trying to wrap their heads around something that seems way out of their league.
Job cannot bear the emotional and physical pain he is subjected to and breaking down curses the day he was born. There is no word spoken against God but Job’s life has become such a terrifying and meaningless void that he would prefer death than the life he has.
The Book of Job now focuses on the three friends of Job who will express their analysis of Jobs situation and this will be followed by Jobs response. These guys have plenty to say, and Job isn’t their biggest fan. He calls them “miserable comforters” (16:3), and he spends almost the whole book arguing with them. At the end of these speeches, God answers Job and his friends and settles the matter.
Over two chapters, four and five, the first of the three friends, Eliphaz, feels constrained to reply to Job’s outburst. The premise of Eliphaz is that Job’s problems have come upon him because of some sin on his part, and that he should confess and repent of his sin in order to be restored. He noted that even angels had fallen into error, therefore it should surprise no one that man, including Job, has also fallen into error.
Job rebuked Eliphaz and his arguments and becomes very acrimonious and at times irreverent towards God. While he accepts God as the Holy One, he does not hold back his accusations against God who has become his ‘crushing enemy’, punishing him beyond human capacity and pain.
Job’s outburst in response to Eliphaz is a little too much for his second friend, Bildad, to swallow. He is indignant at Job and now champions God’s cause and God’s justice. For Bildad, man’s destiny is measured by God according to one’s merits; the good prosper and the wicked suffer. He reiterates Eliphaz’s arguments that those who suffer must have sinned and receive their due punishment; and that by extension includes his friend Job.
YES…as in jobs case when he was down down down…WHY ME? but when the going was good, there was no …WHY ME?
we all face these problems in life. maybe it is to test us and make us stronger, maybe not……JUST GODS WILL! having a fight with god or giving ultimatums HAS NO EFFECT ON GOD….OUR CREATOR AND DESTROYER.
we have no control over our fate, though with gods help, we can lighten our crosses.
HAVE FAITH!